sâmbătă, 3 octombrie 2009

He's Just Not That Into You (2009)


"He's just not that into you" este un film excelent despre relatii. Totul porneste de la simpla intrebare "Esti exceptia sau regula?". Toata lumea stie despre o asa zisa femeie care dupa o relatie de 13 ani s-a casatorit cu partenerul ei, sau despre colega de servici care si-a gasit sufletul pereche de la prima intalnire, dar astea sunt exceptiile. Daca un tip nu s-a casatorit cu tine dupa 7 anid e relatie, cand o va face? Daca un barbat nu te-a sunat dupa prima intalnire nu o va mai face. Apar numeroase reguli de "first date" si majoritatea sunt corecte. De asemenea filmul nu se refera doar la prime intalniri ci si la casatorii incepute prea devreme, sau casnicii neincepute. Mai exista si urmatoarea regula: un barbat nu isi va parasi niciodata sotia pentru tine. Sau s-ar putea sa fi exceptia? Apar numeroase personaje jucate de actori foarte buni precum Jennifer Aniston, Drew Barrymore, Scarlett Johasson, Ben Afflek, Jennifer Connelly, Justin Long.
Perosnal mi-a placut filmul extrem de mult. Sunt numeroase scene amuzante. De asemenea cred ca aceste reguli sunt adevarate si ca femeile au inventat de-a lungul timpului numeroase scuze pentru "un telefon care a uitat sa mai sune". Chiar la inceputul filmului este o faza extrem de draguta in care un baietel de 6 ani imbranceste o fetita mai mica. Explicatia pe care mamica i-a dat-o fetitei a fost aceea ca baiatul se poarta urat cu pentru ca o place. Se pare ca si peste ani de zile "fetita" inca va mai crede asta de fiecare data cand un barbat nu o va mai suna-o, sau s-ar purta urat cu ea. Uneori femeile chiar nu pot crede ca un barbat pur si simplu nu le place. :-)

Quotes:

Gigi: We are all programmed to believe that if a guy acts like a total jerk that means he likes you.

Gigi: Girls are taught a lot of stuff growing up. If a guy punches you he likes you. Never try to trim your own bangs and someday you will meet a wonderful guy and get your very own happy ending. Every movie we see, Every story we're told implores us to wait for it, the third act twist, the unexpected declaration of love, the exception to the rule. But sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending we don't learn how to read the signs. How to tell from the ones who want us and the ones who don't, the ones who will stay and the ones who will leave. And maybe a happy ending doesn't include a guy, maybe... it's you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is... just... moving on. Or maybe the happy ending is this, knowing after all the unreturned phone calls, broken-hearts, through the blunders and misread signals, through all the pain and embarrassment you never gave up hope.

Alex: So trust me when I say if a guy is treating you like he doesn't give a shit, he genuinely doesn't give a shit. No exceptions

Gigi: Maybe his grandma died or maybe he lost my number or is out of town or got hit by a cab...
Alex: Or maybe he is not interested in seeing you again.

2 comentarii:

  1. Am vazut filmul asta acum vreo 3-4 luni si sa zicem ca mi-a placut. :D Alex ala e si in "Drag Me To Hell". :)

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  2. Nu am vazut filmul, dar asta hiar mi-a placut :D

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